Social media dilemma

We have twitter, Facebook, Path, Instagram, and now the newest one for iOS users: Mavensay.

What the heck?

We can publish our thoughts on twitter, but then again we can do the same on Path or Facebook. We can post photos on Instagram but we can do the same on Path and Facebook too! Even twitter can link us to the photos. And now Mavensay is said to be an app for recommendations, but then again, living in an era where people are about “me” who gives a goddamned shit about what you say?

But all the social pressure is making us to be in the current of nowness. I’m an Android users and Mavensay isn’t even available yet on Play Store and I’m already anxious. Why? I don’t need that!

Back to the basic functions that all the platforms have, we feel that we need to integrate one with another which is very frustrating. Because let’s say that Path is the whole package, there’s music, movies, books, photos, thoughts, locations, videos etc. but the app limits us only to 150 friends. And I guess there’s this Californian hunger-for-affirmation-and-fame (The Hills inspired) in every one of us that needs to show everything to most people possible. So what do we do? We link one post to other apps!

I post a thought on Path the link it to twitter and then to Tumblr then Facebook. On Path we can get the “loves” while on twitter all the earth population can see.

And it’s not just about showing people what or who we are but also to get affirmation by getting likes and blah blah blah… For people with low self worth, social medias are the opportunity to bare themselves, for the ones who “exist” this could be a way for the low lives to stalk, but this is definitely not the place for me.

Yesterday, I performed the most pathetic attempt on social medias ever! Know what I did? Ok, there’s one spammer that follows me on Instagram and when I open up his account there’s this tips and tricks about how to get 100 followers and more on Instagram. What he says is to open one spammer account (like his) and see is the following account is higher than followers, and those followers are more likely to follow you back if you follow them. So out of the blue, I did that! I followed around 40 people and overnight, 15 people follow me back. It’s pathetic, alright, but it excites me! And I hate that!

All I’m saying is that there’s positive and negative to social medias and it’s up to us how we’d handle it. Either they make us or break us.
But I’m not gonna let it get to me, I know I’m a geek and forever will be one. I’m not social, but I know more than most social people do.
So… Okee..


And I walked into town to buy some kindling for the fire. Hannah tore the New York Times up into pieces.

Hannah Hunt, Vampire Weekend

If I’m allowed to be a smartass I think I know what this means. IF I’m allowed.


Look who’s finally here! with Aprizal – View on Path.

Look who’s finally here! with Aprizal – View on Path.


First time ever donating blood and I come close to fainting (I never fainted before, I wish I did just so I could say I’ve fainted)..


Skype-ing ngomongin Pak Enjang sama Pak Dede. (at Soepeno’s HQ)

Skype-ing ngomongin Pak Enjang sama Pak Dede. (at Soepeno’s HQ)


Cute colored fabric. Fuck me right?

Cute colored fabric. Fuck me right?


This is so weird, looking down to most people’s “up”? Get it? HAHAHA

This is so weird, looking down to most people’s “up”? Get it? HAHAHA


Gaaaaah – View on Path.

Gaaaaah – View on Path.


Rohyingya. Myanmar’s internally displaced. Photo essay by Phil Behan
Diana Topan, photography-news.com
April 28, 2013 /Photography News/ The endless persecution of Muslim Rohingya continues in Myanmar’s Rakhine state and now they face further hardship as the monsoon season approaches the South East Asian country.Community members in the remote…

Never put faith in people. They’re the worst of the worst animals.

Rohyingya. Myanmar’s internally displaced. Photo essay by Phil Behan
Diana Topan, photography-news.com

April 28, 2013 /Photography News/ The endless persecution of Muslim Rohingya continues in Myanmar’s Rakhine state and now they face further hardship as the monsoon season approaches the South East Asian country.
Community members in the remote…

Never put faith in people. They’re the worst of the worst animals.


Tony Stark

It’s a spring movie, not summer but it’s entertaining in the easiest way, still. I think that’s what Marvel’s all about.

But somehow, they’re trying to make these hero movies in a more “serious” manner after all Nolan shenanigans. Batman Begins, The Dark Knight, Inception and The Dark Knight Rises.

I still won’t see Iron Man as a brilliant movie, but it sure did get me in a happy mood. And it’s nowhere near my my “Movies of 2013” list which so far only include 2 movies; Lincoln and Django Unchained.

Oh and P.S.: wait until the very end of the credits to see hidden scenes. And there’s no one reason to not love Ben Kingsley.


Meng!! Iihh

Meng!! Iihh



Lindsey Wixson. One of the most on-demand models at the present day. Beauty is a matter of perspective.

Lindsey Wixson.
One of the most on-demand models at the present day.
Beauty is a matter of perspective.


I’m a genius!!
Anindita, who just finished editing her Tumblr html by herself.

White Winter Hymnal
Fleet Foxes
Fleet Foxes

“I was following the pack all swallowed in their coats with scarves of red tied around their throats to keep their little heads from falling in the snow and I turn around and there you go, and Michael you would fall and turn the white snow red as strawberries in the summer time.”

Turns out it’s a song about Robin’s brother who died when they play outside in the snow when they were little.

That’s why I feel like bursting into tears all the time.